LEGISLATIVE UPDATE – Representative Ryan Bivens

How can parents protect children from cyber threats

October is Cyber Security Awareness Month, and one of the most critical fronts in our efforts to protect Kentuckians from online predators involves our children. In today’s digital age, children are growing up in a world more connected than ever. Social media, messaging apps, and online gaming offer opportunities for learning and social interaction. However, they also expose young users to a darker side of the internet: cyberbullying, online abuse, and other digital crimes. As parents and community members, understanding these risks and knowing how to respond is crucial to keeping kids safe.

Cyberbullying is one of the most common threats. Unlike traditional bullying, it can happen 24/7 and follow a child into the privacy of their own home. Hurtful messages, rumors, or embarrassing photos shared online can have profound effects on mental health, leading to anxiety, depression, or even suicidal thoughts. While it is difficult to monitor every interaction, parents can take proactive steps to reduce exposure. Encouraging open communication is key: children should feel comfortable sharing their online experiences without fear of punishment or overreaction.

Another serious concern is online predators and exploiters. Abusers often use social media, chat apps, or gaming platforms to contact minors, build trust, and manipulate them. These interactions can escalate into sextortion, sexual abuse, or other crimes. We are seeing a frightening rise in sextortion, when someone threatens to share real or artificially-created sexual images, videos, or information about a person unless that person does something for them, often sending more images, money, or favors. It is essentially blackmail using sexual content to manipulate or control someone.

Parents need to educate children about the dangers of communicating with strangers online and stress that it’s okay to block or report anyone who makes them uncomfortable. Keeping devices in shared family spaces, setting age-appropriate privacy settings, and reviewing friend lists can reduce risk.

Two apps that frequently come up in discussions about online safety are Roblox and Snapchat. Roblox, a popular gaming platform for children and teens, allows users to create and share games, chat with others, and join virtual communities. While it can be a fun and creative outlet, it also exposes children to unmoderated content and interactions with strangers, increasing the risk of inappropriate messages or grooming attempts. Snapchat, known for its disappearing messages and “stories,” can create a false sense of privacy. Predators and cyberbullies may exploit these features to send harmful messages or share explicit content that vanishes before parents can see it.

 Be aware that the danger may be right in front of you. Applications referred to as “vault apps” allow users to disguise photos, videos, or messages. Parents should be aware of the apps installed on their children’s devices and discuss their purposes openly. Educating children about the consequences of sharing sensitive content – even in seemingly harmless, private apps – is essential.

Practical steps can make a real difference in online safety:

1. Set boundaries: Limit screen time, establish clear rules about which apps are allowed, and define acceptable online behavior.
2. Use parental controls: Most devices and apps offer settings to restrict content, monitor usage, and block harmful interactions.
3. Teach critical thinking: Encourage children to question online content, recognize suspicious behavior, and understand that not everyone online is who they claim to be.
4. Promote digital literacy: Teach children to create strong passwords, protect personal information, and understand the permanence of online actions.
5. Monitor – but do not spy: Respecting privacy while keeping an eye on digital habits builds trust. Regular conversations about online experiences are more effective than secretive monitoring.

Schools and communities play a crucial role, too. Anti-bullying programs, mental health support, and education about digital citizenship can reinforce lessons learned at home. Children need to know that they are not alone, and that adults are available to help navigate challenging online situations.

Finally, foster resilience in your children and make them part of the solution. Children who feel confident in their ability to manage conflicts and setbacks, both online and offline, are less likely to become victims of cyber abuse. Show children that reporting a problem to you or another adult is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Protecting children online does not have to be about restricting technology, but rather about being particular with what they have access to and monitoring what they are doing. For generations we have taught our children not to talk to strangers or get in a car with someone they do not know. Let us apply the same approach to technology. At the same time, we must be aware that some threats come from individuals we know – so it is critical we be aware.

As always, I can be reached anytime through the toll-free message line in Frankfort at 1-800-372-7181. You can also contact me via e-mail at ryan.bivens@kylegislature.gov and keep track through the Kentucky legislature’s website at legislature.ky.gov.